It's the journey,
not the destination,
that matters...
I’m an Australian-born creative wedding florist, interior designer, introvert, and writer about divine living.
I am passionate about honouring the divine within our selves and within our regular daily lives to make the ordinary extraordinary. As a busy mother, I had become overwhelmed by the demands of my life, I realised that much of my life was made up of things that I hadn’t consciously chosen for myself, a long list of shoulds, obligations, other people’s agendas and timelines and checklists of responsibility and duty to others. I felt burned out because I simply didn’t have anything left over for myself.
That old saying of fill your cup first and serve from the overflow inspired a journey of digging through my life hunting for signs of myself. I was so far away from myself I had to begin a pilgrimage to find myself amongst the busyness of our modern world. Mining old journals, finding nuggets of wisdom from decades ago, listening to mentors and coaches, ebooks and podcasts, I began to re-write my values, rediscover what excites me and rework my life around the answers I found.
I truly believe that when things change inside you, the world around you changes and taking the time to discover who I was at my core, and what I really wanted my life to be like, it wasn’t long before the external matched the internal. It is a path to true alignment and living a life that you love.
I believe that the journey of self-discovery is a spiral—a cycle of coming back again and again for deeper answers, as our needs and values change with time. We start with those values that are most important to us, we make choices that lead to experiences, and the experiences we have to lead us to search further into ourselves. It is a life long journey, not a destination and we can make it a celebration or a chore, that is how powerful we are, we can choose to suffer even when we are surrounded by the divine.
I have created guided journaling journey’s that will empower you discover what’s missing, create questions around what’s truly important to you, to decide what you want to do and what you need to do in order to feel fulfilled, rather than just what you are told to do or expected to do. This is a meditative journey that uncovers wisdom from your hearts desires by listening to their own inner guidance — all of the answers to all of the questions are deep inside of you waiting to be heard.
My pilgrimage to the divine feminine helped me realise that the way I have always wanted to live my life is actually the very best way of living for me, with the emphasis on for ME…. and that was when I realised that all of the books and coaches and courses that I had done were helpful, but they only left me with more of what someone else thought I should do. It was in my own quiet moments, journaling my own thoughts and feelings that I discovered what I deeply wanted for myself and it was perfectly tailored to me. It was when I stopped listening to what others where telling me I should do, and started filling my life with the things that I wanted that I realised that I had the map for my own perfect unfurling within me all along. As do you.
The courses I share here are like a treasure hunt, guiding to you draw your own map of your own perfect unfurling, to fill in the blanks with wisdom from within. I guide you topics to contemplate that will uncover answers to questions like what do I need, how do I receive, what nourishes me, what does self care really mean for me. I don’t give you any answers or advice, I simply give you the right questions, because I truly believe that the answers are with you, in your heart, in your soul, you were born with the answers, and you can uncover them with time and gentleness and intention. Which is just as it should be ~ x